Sunday, April 25, 2010

I am not that girl that men fall in love with, swoon over or buy flowers for. I'm the woman the men talk to about the girls they have fallen in love with, swooned over or are thinking of buying flowers for("Should I or shouldn't I? Do you think...?"). So I can count the number of times I have had flowers given to me on one hand and one of those was a, "Yeah, I got this for free and thought you'd like it," tossed at me by one boyfriend and then a couple of, "My girlfriend/wife is mad at me and refused these, but you might like them." The remaining two were flowers from my best friend, Jim (long story, but pretty purple mums that I really appreciated), and a bouquet on my birthday from a college roommate, Charissa.

Now I LOVE flowers. When I had a garden there was one year that my love for flowers took over my Taurean practicality and instead of vegetables it was all Monet flowers all summer long. And there have been years when all I did was YEARN for flowers and friends and family would ask me what I wanted for my birthday and Christmas and I'd list books and albums and flowers. And I'd always hope for flowers. And never get the flowers.

Which is why I started buying flowers for myself for my birthday. I realized it was silly to wish for something when I had the capability of getting it for myself all along. And so flowers were things I started buying for myself whenever I wanted to celebrate something for me - Christmas, Birthday, or just because.

And then today, on a Sunday, I get a call from the front door for a delivery, but I didn't order anything.....

And it's FLOWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Roses, hydrangeas, little wild flowers that my gramma would have loved and I loved, too.

Thank you, Aunt Pat, for my wonderful, glorious birthday flowers! They are truly appreciated for the gift that they are!





Friday, April 9, 2010

In Search of the Best Lemon Cake Ever!

As I mentioned on my last post my birthday is in a couple of weeks, and normally, around my birthday, I like to do things that I know I really like just for me. Some of those things include buying myself flowers (I tend to be partial to yellowy orange roses this time of year, but anything that catches my fancy and spirit makes its way home), treating myself to my favorite lemoncello, and making myself a lemon cake with lemon frosting.

[Normally, at this point, I would insert a picture of one my past tries at my favorite cake, but I can't find any. So, instead, here's a copy of a lemon cupcake I had from Lark, on Sunset, a couple of years ago.]



Usually, I use cake mix from a box and frosting from a tub and just see what I can do with that, decorate it with lemons and voila! My own lemon cake. This year, however, I decided I'd like to try something from scratch, or a little different from just using a box mix and a tub-o-frosting. So, I thought I would look up lemon cake recipes on the interwebs and see what I can find there. There are a LOT of lemon cake recipes out there in the world. There's a Tequila Lemon Cake, a Greek Lemon Cake, and a Lemon Cake with Candied Pansies on the first Google. And a lot more I don't want to sift through. So, what I thought I would do is ask my friends for their help.

So, if you have a recipe for a lemon cake that you really think is the best lemon cake you've ever had, I would love to have you send it my way! And then, if I choose your cake and I'm able to do it justice, I'll blog about it and show a picture and, if you like, let everyone know where I got such a wonderful lemon cake recipe!

Or, if nothing else, I'll get a box of lemon cake mix and see what I can do with lemon juice and lemon rind and then I'll show you a pic of that.

It's all good.


(from my garden when I lived in San Francisco...)

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Happy Birthday Blog Contest!


I wasn't going to do a blog contest this time. I just sent out emails to people to see if they wanted a copy and went from there. But somehow I STILL ended up with an extra copy (maybe 2 or 3 unless I hear back from people on brick and mortar addresses). So, if you're interested in possibly winning a copy of the February 2010 issue of Aoife's Kiss with my story, "Love's Clothing," in it (a sad werewolfy love story), then leave a comment down below by midnight Pacific Time April 25th. Then on April 26 (my birthday, hence the title) I will draw names out of a hat and contact the winner(s).

How's that sound?

Okay - GO!

Friday, April 2, 2010

Pye and Poetry Month

April is Poetry Month, so I thought I'd share a spur of the moment poem I wrote on a tribe, plus some tail, by Pye.

Poem:

I hold tails with my cat
breath and peace
twixt two green-eyed, orange haired

monsters...


and Tail:

Friday, March 26, 2010

It Arrived!!!




If you're interested, the copies of the February 2010 issue arrived today. If you said you wanted a copy that probably means I'll be sending them out next week. Here's the link if you'd like to hear the first page of the story.


My Spanish is atrocious and I keep tripping over words no matter how much I practice, but hopefully you still like it.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

National Women's History Month



March is (and has been all month) National Women's History Month. More than that, March 8 was International Women's Day. I have been meaning to blog about this because as a woman it's important to me for these to be acknowledged. Yet, I was too busy and distracted to sit down and craft any kind of a well written blog about it. But it remains important. Daily the news brings us stories of women and girls subjected to attack, physical abuse, sexual abuse, psychological and emotional abuse. I have some (female) friends who claim we live in a post-feminist world.

We know this isn't the truth.

Just watch the news.

Just. Pay. Attention.

Yes, we've gone through the first, second and third waves of feminism, but we aren't on the other side yet. Women are still only a tiny percentage of CEOs in this country and around the world. The United States still has not had a female president, even though other, more conservative countries, have had female leaders. And when I see the official lists of writers and editors and artists and musicians taken seriously in our country and around the world, those official lists seem to be lacking in the women writers, editors, artists and musicians that I know are out there kicking ass.

Women still can't walk down the street in the cool night air without wondering if the footsteps behind them are friend or foe.

And people say rape isn't a hate crime.

Still.

Moving on....part of the point of National Women's History month is to make sure people understand and acknowledge the place women have had in history. Make sure people see that the world wasn't put together by only half the population. For example, women who were part of the WACS, WAVES, and WASPS during WWII contributed to the war effort, and yet that contribution wasn't even truly acknowledged until 1975. It was 2009 before WASP received a Congressional Gold Medal.

There's a saying I heard on tv the other night. The house doesn't rest on the ground, it rests on a woman. It acknowledges the part a woman plays in keeping a home together, although it relegates her silent partner. But we can't always be the silent partners who nod and smile and keep our mouths shut for the sake of male egos around us and in the mean time hold up half the sky (and why should we walk on eggshells around those male egos when they haven't had the same regard for our egos and esteem).

Our role in the running of the planet needs to be acknowledged and respected. What we have and do and can contribute to this world needs to be acknowledged and respected.

More than that, however, as women we need to take our responsibility for our own lives and the life of the planet seriously as well. Too often, we shrug things off and say, "that's just the way it is" or "that's a woman's lot" or something like that.

We know better than that.

Now, take a look at that news again and at the history books and at your life and look at the affect women have had on it. Acknowledge it and be glad. And maybe do what you can to make sure future women and girls have a chance to make that same acknowledgment. Check out the Girl Effect, Girl Scouts, Camp Fire, or some of your other local girls and women's organizations. Take part add your part to the legacy of women's history. Don't let the world or history pass you by.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Locus Online Poll for 2009 Science Fiction and Fantasy

Every year Locus magazine, the zine of science fiction, fantasy, horror and other "other" fiction conducts a poll about best fiction from the year before. They count votes from nonsubscribers, so go vote!

secure.locusmag.com/Magazine...rvey.html

If that link doesn't work for you then go to www.locusmag.com and click on the link to the lower right of the screen. Voting closes April 1.